ANTI-PUA

An Anti-PUA story isn't about attacking others it's about unlearning what you were taught to be.
The goal isn't to expose a system it's to reclaim your own definition of connection, respect, and self-worth.
It's not about blame. It's about healing from a mindset that disconnected you from your true self.

Start not from clarity, but from confusion:

• When did you first believe that "love" had to be won, gamed, or manipulated?
• What advice did you follow that ended up making you feel empty?
• When did you realize you were treating people as prizes instead of humans?
• What moment made you question it all and start over?

Best formats:

• Direct-to-camera confession / Side-by-side: "What I believed vs What I now know" / Duet-style reflection / Voice-over with screenshots or quotes
• Use contrast as structure: the "rules" you followed vs the real connection you craved.
• Or format it like a letter: "To the person I hurt while I was trying to 'win.'"